In a relationship it is vital that the partners should keep their ego aside and take things in the stride. They will have a healthy and prosper relationship.
It is like two sides of the same coin and both need to go hand in hand to have a balanced life.
Most of the time one partner adjusts and the other remains adamant and dominates. It shows that the relationship is not sailing in the smooth manner. It is time to re-evaluate the feasibility of the relationship’s equation.
The stubborn, unaccommodating partner is also not the right one for you.
Below 👇 signs show that you are trying too hard in your relationship.
➡️ Putting in excessive effort to make them understand you
A lot of time it happens that your partner does not like the decision you made, which may lead to further conflicts. It irks them but instead of discussing it over, you left with the onus of making your stand clear. You tend to keep giving clarifications to your partner, to which they pay no heed. In such a case, it is best to stop justifying yourself over and over again.
➡️ Fearing breakup most of the time
In a relationship if any of the partner has the fear of impending breakup in the mind, then it need to sought out the reason. Why such fear? It means that there is something wrong in the relationship and you need to introspect about it.
➡️ Trying to be over-accommodating
If you give priority to your partner’s needs and comfort over yours, you are over indulging them. You may be only listening to what they have to say and not thinking about what makes you happy. Here, it is vital to realize that you can’t always make adjustments at your expense.
➡️ Being anxious about your relationship
Having a doubt in mind, about where you stand in your relationship, may makes you anxious or depressed. Most of the couple feels the same but fails to find the reason behind it. It is time for you to consult a therapist to come out of it. If you don’t feel happy and content around your partner, then you are not in a good relationship.
➡️ Ceasing to talk on the problems
Every relationship have issues, so does yours. But the moment you stop tackling those issues with an open discussion with your partner as you have the fear that it may lead to further conflicts. It is important that the efforts to address such situation should comes from both side.
How would you know that the person you are with is right or wrong for you. You cant judge a person over a night. It takes deep understanding over the period of time and once you realize so, you feel like either you are stuck or have fall in the right place. But it is important to know the intimacy of the relationship and it cannot be known one sided. Still if you find below points in your relationship you can sense the feeling, if:
1) They forget important dates and events.
2) They can comfortably spend the time without talking to you.
3) They don’t notice the small changes in your appearance.
4) Makes fun of your worries and doesn’t take it seriously.
5) Makes you feel stupid and weird for having certain hobbies and interests.
6) They often criticize your ideas and behavior.
7) They make everything look like it’s your fault and rarely apologized for their mistakes.
As said by Wayne Dyer “Problems in relationship occur because each person is focusing on what is missing in the other person.” A relationship is like a house. When a light bulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb. Being alone is scary, but not as scary as feeling alone in a relationship.